
Is that photo not insane? It just doesn't seem safe! And if you're going so far that you need to ride a Segway to get there, wouldn't it make more sense/be safer just to drive?? What is the Segway hits a bump or a curb and you lose your grip on the stroller??? Am I just old-fashioned that I think a stroller should be controlled by two feet on the ground?
Not much going on in Peanutnoodleland. Feeling pretty good, tummy is expanding though somehow my in-laws are still clueless. Can someone explain to me that if your uterus is still relatively small and between your hipbones at 14 weeks, why I've got the tummy poke-out? Is it because the uterus is pushing all the others organs up and out of the way? So many mysteries... As for my ILs, it'll be a relief after April 1st (finger crossed) to be able to tell them because my FIL has spoken about other people "getting fat" and has low tolerance for it, so I constantly wonder if he's saying the same about me when they go home! ;)
I ordered a fetal heart monitor yesterday and though I've gone 14 weeks without one, now that I've ordered it, I must HAVE.IT.NOW. I keep checking Amazon's shipment status, like every 15 minutes, and of course nothing has changed beyond "Your item has been shipped!". Can't they give me step by step updates?? And I mean, literally, every step of the postal service ;).
Work has been nutso lately -- not in the busy way, but in the departmental reorganizational way. Long story short, my current manager is the nicest guy in the world and the main reason I haven't actively looked to move on. I like my job, but it's gotten kind of old, I can't seem to extricate myself from the daily grind of tasks and focus on higher-level projects (as was promised) and I often work way too much OT. But he was such an easy guy, always ready to help out and, critical to IF, I could pretty much come and go at will. Well, in the reorg my department would have a new manager, one I've had before and I'll just say, one that I would not look forward to having again. Add that to the fact that I'm ready for new things, except, oh yea, there's a baby along for the ride, which makes it tough, if not impossible, to look for a new job. Plus, I work from home, something I really want to maintain after Peanut is born. And, oh yeah, the economy. There's no jobs out there, I've looked!
So, anyway, I've been in endless meetings that I've initiated trying to craft a new role for myself on another team. So far my good guy manager loves the idea, as does the manager to whom I'd go to. Now we need to get buy in from the big boss and hope the returning manager to whom I was supposed to be reporting will not try to kill the deal. I pretty much said if we can't make this happen, I won't be sticking around - bold talk in these times, both nationally and personally. And while I certainly didn't threaten imminent giving notice, they understood that I meant that I don't see a place for myself, long-term, in the current scenario. So, we'll see. I'm usually very laid back at work, everybody's go-to gal, but I can be feisty when needed. I found myself saying "That's not good enough" several times when speaking with my current manager about him trying to compromise on what I pitched, so we'll see where my feisty-ness gets me ;).
All I can say is....TGIF!
Haha I know that feeling about the heart monitor. At first I was trying not to get one, but when I finally broke down and ordered I wanted it to be like teleported immediately to my house!! :) When I got it I used it daily and swore I'd do that throughout prengnacy. Now that I'm feeling him I haven't pulled it out quite as much. So glad I've got it though. As for the belly mystery I think you've got it figured out. When he first started moving I was like why is he moving so darn low, then I realized just because my belly was huge at belly button level, the uterus hadn't actually caught up to migrating to that level. So the fat belly in the beginning is really just all my internal junk and not the baby at all. Kinda blew my mind. Now I'm weireded out by the fact that right below that big old belly is a flat space. The mysteries of pregnancy never end!! :)
ReplyDeleteGood for you for looking into a better position! good luck!! I'm starting the job hunting as soon as this little guy comes out and I can fit into my suit!
ReplyDeleteMy bump at 14 weeks was fat getting pushed in new directions! It was a lot of bloating and things starting to shift around. Don't worry, soon you'll have the nice looking bump!
And yes, the person on the segway is crazy!!
What the heck is that woman thinking on that segway??? She really isn't thinking, that's the problem. Good for you for standing up for yourself at work. Just because times aren't good, doesn't mean they can just push you around or pawn you off...you are a valued employee and hopefully they will see that.
ReplyDeleteAs for your FIL being "negative" about weight gain...phooie on him. DH can sometimes be like that and I get very annoyed at him for it. And I'm sure your little bump looks great...now if we could just get you to post a picture of it. :-)
Have a great weekend...it's good to hear from you.
Be careful with the fetal heart monitor. I've read some articles urging people not to use them for different reasons. You might want to read some of them before you get it in the mail.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad everything is going great at 14 weeks. You're totally into the 2nd trimester now! When do you get to do cartwheels again?
Love the pic...never know what goes through some peoples minds! Hope your monitor is here before you know it =)
ReplyDeleteWow, that segway picture is something else...
ReplyDeleteThat is completely awesome how you're fighting to create a new job for yourself! I hope everyone cooperates and you get the position you want AND the flexible schedule and working at home that you're used to :).
That is too funny and looks really unsafe!
ReplyDeleteI bet you can't wait to spill the beans on why you're getting "fat" :)
The fetal doppler literally preserved my sanity. In the beginning it can be hard to find that little heart since it can move around so much, but later you only have to turn it on for about 3 seconds to get a reading. It's fabulous. Don't be scared by any dire EMF warnings - if you have a cellphone or go to a grocery store with theft detection you are already being exposed to way more wave disturbance than a fe-dop can create.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I am impressed with your job-negotiating skills. I hope it all works out - it's hard enough to figure out work/pregnancy/parenting even if everything is going your way. Good luck!
Glad to hear from you and hear that things are going well. Good luck with that new position!
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